Influence/Mentors

Influence/Mentors


If you could find out what the most successful people did in any area and then you did the same thing over and over, you'd eventually get the same results they do.

Get around the right people. Associate with positive, goal-oriented people who encourage and inspire you.

Be selective about your external influences. Your multi-dimensional brain is influenced by everything you see, hear, read, smell, touch, feel or say.

Avoid negative people at all costs. They are the greatest destroyers of self-confidence and self-esteem.



"The Treasury of Quotes" by Brian Tracy

Kenapa HERBALIFE di bulan RAMADHAN?

Kenapa HERBALIFE di bulan RAMADHAN?
Sebab masa puasa proses AUTOLISIS berlaku di mana,

10 hari pertama 10% sel badan diperbaharui

10 hari kedua 66% sel badan diperbaharui

10 hari ketiga 100% sel badan diperbaharui secara keseluruhan.

Selalunya proses ini berlaku bila sel darah diperbaharui iaitu dlm tempoh 90 hari!

Tapi masa bulan RAMADHAN, proses AUTOLISIS sangat cepat untuk mereka yang berpuasa!
ALLAHU AKBAR!

So, logiknya kalau kita makan benda yang rendah nutrisi, sel kita akan serap & proses benda yang tidak baik jugak la.. Sebab itu kita pilihlah makanan bernutrisi tinggi untuk sel kita selepas seharian berpuasa. Sebab itu HERBALIFE terbaik untuk mereka yang berpuasa di bulan Ramadhan

Happiness/Self-Fulfillment

Here's Today's Tip!

Happiness/Self-Fulfillment


Set peace of mind as your highest goal and organize your entire life around it.

Happiness and high performance come to you when you choose to live your life consistent with your highest values and your deepest convictions.

The kindest thing you can do for the people you care about is to become a happy, joyous person.

The quality of your life is determined by how you feel at any given moment. How you feel is determined by how you interpret what is happening around you, not by the events themselves.

Happiness comes when you believe in what you are doing, know what you are doing, and love what you are doing.



"The Treasury of Quotes" by Brian Tracy

Superior Human Relations

Superior Human Relations


Don't be reluctant to give of yourself generously, it's the mark of caring and compassion and personal greatness.


The reason for living is to have great relationships, to have people you love and respect and who love and respect you.

The best words for resolving a disagreement are, "I could be wrong; I often am." It's true.


Look for the good in every person and every situation. You'll almost always find it.


Women are complex and subtle. Men are simple and direct.


Your ability to get along well with others will determine your happiness and success as much as any other factor.



"The Treasury of Quotes" by Brian Tracy

Goals/Goal Achievement

Goals/Goal Achievement


An average person with average talent, ambition and education, can outstrip the most brilliant genius in our society, if that person has clear, focused goals.

The establishment of a clear, central purpose or goal in life is the starting point of all success.

Goals in writing are dreams with deadlines.

Committing your goals to paper increases the likelihood of your achieving them by one-thousand percent!

Success equals goals; all else is commentary.

Rewrite your major goals every day, in the present tense, exactly as if they already existed.



"The Treasury of Quotes" by Brian Tracy

Richard Branson's Book "Losing My Virginity" Page 501 in the new version.

Richard Branson's Book "Losing My Virginity"  Page 501 in the new version.



"I have always lived my life by making lists:

Lists of people to call,

Lists of ideas,

Lists of Companies to set up,

Lists of people who can make things happen.



Each day I work through these lists and its in that sequence of calls that propels me forward"

In control

In control


There are things you can control and things you cannot control. If you focus too heavily on those things you cannot control, it can lead to an overwhelming amount of frustration and anxiety.

Choose instead to focus your thoughts and efforts on those things upon which you can have a positive influence. There are plenty of those things, and by giving your energy to them you can quickly and significantly improve the quality of your life.

Stop worrying so much about what others are doing wrong. Instead, put your time and effort into discovering what you can do right, what you can do well, and in using your unique abilities to create excellence.

Whenever you feel yourself getting anxious or frustrated by something that's beyond your control, stop and take a fresh look around. There's something you can do, right then and there, that will make a positive difference in the world.

The more you make use of the positive power that you have, the stronger that power will grow. There is always something you can do, and it always beats complaining or worrying about those things you cannot do.

Do what you can, when you can, where you are, with what you have. You'll find that it can make an enormous difference.


-- Ralph Marston

R2D2 or RU ME 2

Below is a great poem that relates to the You factor.

It is about what your mind is telling you to do.  Remember a thought held long enough in your mind becomes your attitude.

Guys dream bigger than you can believe and don't let the robot below do what he has to do with your mind.


R2D2 or RU ME 2

I have a little robot that goes around with me

I tell him what I am thinking, I tell him what I see

I tell my little robot all my hopes and fears,

He listens and remembers all my joys and tears



At first my little robot will follow my command,

But after a few years of training he got out of hand

He doesn't care what is right or wrong or what is false and true

No matter what I'll try now he'll tell me what to do.

DON'T QUIT

DON'T QUIT


When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low, and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As everyone of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,
It's when things seem worse, that you must not quit!

Changing your thinking

Changing your thinking


If your thoughts could cause things to instantly happen, what kind of thoughts would you think? If your values and priorities were to be continually manifested in the world around you, what values and priorities would you choose?

The fact is, your thoughts, your values, and your priorities most certainly have a major influence on the quality of your world and your life. Though you cannot instantly make something appear just by thinking about it, the things that do end up appearing in your life often do so as a result of your thoughts.

Your thoughts directly control your actions, and your actions have a major impact on the reality of your life. When you feed your moments with positive, loving, thankful thoughts, your life and your world cannot help but benefit.

The quickest way to improve your situation is to improve the way you think about it. Though your thoughts will not immediately change anything outside of you, they can immediately change your outlook.

And by adopting an affirmative, creative, grateful outlook on life, you receive a double benefit. Your actions become more focused on creating value and at the same time, they become more effective.

Changing your thinking can indeed change your world. So choose the best thoughts that you can possibly imagine.



-- Ralph Marston

The Subtlety of Language

The Subtlety of Language

"The Millionaire maker ?"
Herbalife's own business philosopher


I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course can make a major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference in even how you talk to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start saying what you do want. I call that faith. Believing the best, hoping for the best and moving toward the best.

A few examples could be, instead of saying "What if somebody doesn't respond" you start saying, "What if they do respond?" Instead of saying "What if someone says no?" You say, "What if they say yes?" Instead of "What if they start and quit?" say, "What if they start and stay?" or "What if it doesn't work out?" You say, "What if it does work out?" and the list goes on and on.

I found that when you start thinking and saying what you really want then your mind automatically shifts and pulls you in that direction. And sometimes it can be that simple, just a little twist in vocabulary that illustrates your attitude and philosophy.

Our language can also affect how others perform and behave around us. A teenager says to a parent, "I need $10." And if the parents learn to say, "No comprende. That kind of language doesn't work here. We've got plenty of money, but that's not how you get $10." Then you teach your teenager how to ask, "How can I earn $10?"

That is the magic of words. There is plenty of money here. There is money for everybody, but you just have to learn the magic words to get them. For everything you could possibly want. If you just learn the philosophy. How could I earn $10? Because you can't go to the soil and say, "Give me a harvest." You know the soil smiles and says, "Who is this clown that brings me his need and brings me no seed." And if you said to the soil, "I've got this seed and if I planted it, would you work while I sleep?" And the soil says, "No problem. Give me the seed. Go to sleep and I'll be working while you're sleeping."

If you just understand these simple principles, teaching them to a teenager (or adult) is sometimes just a matter of language. It's like an investment account instead of a savings account. Simple language, but so important. It is easy to stumble through almost a lifetime and not learn some of these simplicities. Then you have to put up with all the lack and all the challenges that don't work out simply from not reading the book, not listening to the tape, not sitting in the class, not studying your language and not being willing to search so you can then find.

But here is the great news. You can start this process anytime. For me it was at age 25. At 25 I'm broke. Six years later I'm a millionaire. Somebody says, "What kind of revolution, what kind of change, what kind of thinking, what kind of magic had to happen? Was it you?" And I say, "No. Any person, any six years, 36 to 42, 50 to 56. Whatever six years; whatever few years you go on an intensive, accelerated personal development curve, learning curve, application curve, and learning the disciplines. Now, it might not take the same amount of time, but I'm telling you the same changes and the same rewards in some different fashion are available for those who pay that six year price. And you might find that whether it's in the beginning to help get you started, or in the middle to keep you on track, that your language can have a great impact on your attitude, actions and results.



To Your Success,
Jim Rohn

Today is Yesterday's Tomorrow by Jim Rohn

Today is Yesterday's Tomorrow by Jim Rohn
(Excerpted from the book The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle) by Jim Rohn



The problem with waiting until tomorrow is that when it finally arrives, it is called today. Today is yesterday's tomorrow. The question is what did we do with its opportunity? All too often we will waste tomorrow as we wasted yesterday, and as we are wasting today. All that could have been accomplished can easily elude us, despite our intentions, until we inevitably discover that the things that might have been have slipped from our embrace a single, unused day at a time.

Each of us must pause frequently to remind ourselves that the clock is ticking. The same clock that began to tick from the moment we drew our first breath will also someday cease.

Time is the great equalizer of all mankind. It has taken away the best and the worst of us without regard for either. Time offers opportunity but demands a sense of urgency.

When the game of life I finally over, there is no second chance to correct our errors. The clock that is ticking away the moments of our lives does not care about winners and losers. It does not care about who succeeds or who fails. It does not care about excuses, fairness or equality. The only essential issue is how we played the game.

Regardless of a person's current age, there is a sense of urgency that should drive them into action now - this very moment. We should be constantly aware of the value of each and every moment of our lives - moments that seem so insignificant that their loss often goes unnoticed.

We still have all the time we need. We still have lots of chances - lots of opportunities - lots of years to show what we can do. For most of us, there will be a tomorrow, a next week, a next month, and a next year. But unless we develop a sense of urgency, those brief windows of time will be sadly wasted, as were the weeks and months and years before them. There isn't an endless supply!

So, as you think of your dreams and goals of your future tomorrow, begin today to take those very important first steps to making them all come to life.


To Your Success,
Jim Rohn

Courage to Get Back Up

Courage to Get Back Up



Craig B. Larson, writing in Fresh Illustrations for Preaching & Teaching, makes an interesting observation about "getting knocked down:"

Bringing a giraffe into the world is a tall order. A baby giraffe falls 10 feet from its mother's womb and usually lands on its back. Within seconds it rolls over and tucks its legs under its body. From this position it considers the world for the first time and shakes off the last vestiges of the birthing fluid from its eyes and ears. Then the mother giraffe rudely introduces its offspring to the reality of life.

In his book, A View from the Zoo, Gary Richmond describes how a newborn giraffe learns its first lesson.

The mother giraffe lowers her head long enough to take a quick look. Then she positions herself directly over her calf. She waits for about a minute, and then she does the most unreasonable thing. She swings her long, pendulous leg outward and kicks her baby, so that it is sent sprawling head over heels.

When it doesn't get up, the violent process is repeated over and over again. The struggle to rise is momentous. As the baby calf grows tired, the mother kicks it again to stimulate its efforts. Finally, the calf stands for the first time on its wobbly legs.

Then the mother giraffe does the most remarkable thing. She kicks it off its feet again. Why? She wants it to remember how it got up. In the wild, baby giraffes must be able to get up as quickly as possible to stay with the herd, where there is safety. Lions, hyenas, leopards, and wild hunting dogs all enjoy young giraffes, and they'd get it too, if the mother didn't teach her calf to get up quickly and get with it.

The late Irving Stone understood this. He spent a lifetime studying greatness, writing novelized biographies of such men as Michelangelo, Vincent van Gogh, Sigmund Freud, and Charles Darwin.

Stone was once asked if he had found a thread that runs through the lives of all these exceptional people. He said, "I write about people who sometime in their life have a vision or dream of something that should be accomplished and they go to work.?

"They are beaten over the head, knocked down, vilified, and for years they get nowhere. But every time they're knocked down they stand up. You cannot destroy these people. And at the end of their lives they've accomplished some modest part of what they set out to do."

Have you learned to get back up? Being defeated is a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent. Steven Covey says, ?The proactive approach to a mistake is to acknowledge it instantly, correct and learn from it. This literally turns a failure into a success.?

Success is never final and failure is not fatal. It is the courage to get back up that counts!

You are what you believe.  BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

Sesungguhnya manusia pertama yang diadili pada hari kiamat adalah orang yang mati syahid di jalan Allah

Imam Muslim berkata: Telah mengabarkan kepada kami Yahya bin Habib Al-Haritsi, (Dia - Yahya bin Habib Al-Haritsi telah berkata) Telah mengabarkan kepada kami Khalid bin Al-Haritsi, (Dia - Khalid bin Al-Haritsi berkata) telah mengabarkan kepada kami Ibnu Juraij, (Ibnu Juraij berkata) telah mengabarkan kepadaku Yunus bin Yusuf, dari Sulaiman bin Yasaar, Dia (Sulaiman bin Yasaar) berkata, Ketika orang-orang telah meninggalkan Abu Hurairah, maka berkatalah Naatil bin Qais al Hizamy Asy-Syamiy (seorang penduduk palestine beliau adalah seorang tabiin), "Wahai Syaikh, ceritakanlah kepadaku suatu hadits yang Engkau telah dengar dari Rasulullah Shollallahu'alaihi wassalam, Ya (Aku akan ceritakan - Jawab Abu Hurairah). Aku telah mendengar Rasulullah Shollallahu'alaihi wassalam bersabda: "Sesungguhnya manusia pertama yang diadili pada hari kiamat adalah orang yang mati syahid di jalan Allah. Ia didatangkan dan diperlihatkan kepadanya kenikmatan-kenikmatan (yang diberikan di dunia), lalu ia pun mengenalinya. Allah bertanya kepadanya : 'Amal apakah yang engkau lakukan dengan nikmat-nikmat itu?' Ia menjawab : 'Aku berperang semata-mata karena Engkau sehingga aku mati syahid.' Allah berfirman : 'Engkau dusta! Engkau berperang supaya dikatakan seorang yang gagah berani. Memang demikianlah yang telah dikatakan (tentang dirimu).' Kemudian diperintahkan (malaikat) agar menyeret orang itu atas mukanya (tertelungkup), lalu dilemparkan ke dalam neraka. Berikutnya orang (yang diadili) adalah seorang yang menuntut ilmu dan mengajarkannya serta membaca al-Qur-an. Ia didatangkan dan diperlihatkan kepadanya kenikmatan-kenikmatannya, maka ia pun mengakuinya. Kemudian Allah menanyakannya: 'Amal apakah yang telah engkau lakukan dengan kenikmatan-kenikmatan itu?' Ia menjawab: 'Aku menuntut ilmu dan mengajarkannya serta aku membaca al-Qur-an hanyalah karena engkau.' Allah berkata : 'Engkau dusta! Engkau menuntut ilmu agar dikatakan seorang 'alim (yang berilmu) dan engkau membaca al-Qur-an supaya dikatakan seorang qari' (pembaca al-Qur-an yang baik). Memang begitulah yang dikatakan (tentang dirimu).' Kemudian diperintahkan (malaikat) agar menyeret atas mukanya dan melemparkannya ke dalam neraka. Berikutnya (yang diadili) adalah orang yang diberikan kelapangan rezeki dan berbagai macam harta benda. Ia didatangkan dan diperlihatkan kepadanya kenikmatan-kenikmatannya, maka ia pun mengenalinya (mengakuinya). Allah bertanya : 'Apa yang engkau telah lakukan dengan nikmat-nikmat itu?' Dia menjawab : 'Aku tidak pernah meninggalkan shadaqah dan infaq pada jalan yang Engkau cintai, melainkan pasti aku melakukannya semata-mata karena Engkau.' Allah berfirman : 'Engkau dusta! Engkau berbuat yang demikian itu supaya dikatakan seorang dermawan (murah hati) dan memang begitulah yang dikatakan (tentang dirimu).' Kemudian diperintahkan (malaikat) agar menyeretnya atas mukanya dan melemparkannya ke dalam neraka.'’

Takhrij Hadits

Hadits ini diriwayatkan oleh : Muslim, Kitabul Imarah bab Man Qaatala lir Riya' was Sum'ah Istahaqqannar VI/47 atau III/1513-1514 no. 1905; An-Nasa-i, Kitabul Jihad bab Man Qaatala liyuqala : Fulan Jari', Sunan Nasa-i VI/23-24, Ahmad dalam Musnadnya II/322 dan Baihaqy IX/168.

Hadits di atas derajadnya Shohih sebagaimana dijelaskan oleh al-Hakim dan disetujui oleh adz-Dzahabi I/418-419, Syaikh Ahmad Muhammad Syakir dalam tahqiq Musnad Imam Ahmad no. 8260 dan Syaikh Muhammad Nashiruddin Al-Albani dalam Shahih At-Targhib wat Tarhib I/114 no. 22 serta dalam Shahih an-Nasa'i II/658 no. 2940

Choose the best!

Choose the best!


The only fears you have are the fears you choose. Choose to learn what those fears have to teach you, and then choose to let them go.

The only distractions that knock you off course are the ones to which you give your attention. Choose an interesting diversion to follow every now and then, and let the others flow on past.

The only things that can discourage you are the things you choose to see as discouraging. Keep in mind that there is some positive aspect to every situation, and you can always decide to focus on it.

The only problems that can hold you back are the ones that you avoid working your way through. Choose instead to see those problems as the opportunities they are, and then get busy fulfilling their positive promises.

The only time that is ever wasted is the time you let yourself settle for less than you're fully capable of living. At any time, in any situation, there is always a way to create real, lasting, positive value.

You are at this very moment alive in a vast and beautiful universe filled with every possibility. Choose right now to bring the very best possibilities to life.


-- Ralph Marston

KNOW YOUR INNATE,NATURAL TALENTS

"It's the little things you do that can make a big difference. What are you attempting to accomplish? What little thing can you do today that will make you more effective? You are probably only one step away from greatness."


-- Bob Proctor

QUOTE OF THE DAY:

     "The truly successful person inspires others to do more than they have thought possible for themselves."

-- Denis Waitley

ACTION STEPS:

KNOW YOUR INNATE,NATURAL TALENTS
by Lisa Jimenez, M. Ed.

You have all you need to make your life work. Look to your natural talents to guide you in life. You know, those things you do so well that you don't even have to think about it. It is those abilities that come naturally to you that will help you build your confidence in other areas of your life. Begin with your strengths! Too many times people focus on what they need to work on ? their weaknesses. And get burned out. How much better it is to begin with your talent. Your God-given talents can give you the courage to bridge over to the areas you need work on.

Do you even know your innate talents? Can you name seven of them in less than a minute? Try it. Take a minute right now to list seven innate abilities you have.

I bet if I asked you to name seven things about you that you need to improve, you would come up with all seven in seconds! What's wrong with this picture?

Rethink how you think!  Okay.  Now, write down seven one-word positives about you.  What are you just naturally good at?

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Are you using those talents every day ? in work, at home, in your relationships? If not, why not? You are missing out on a powerful process of building courage, cultivating faith and conquering fear!

Know Your Innate, Natural Talents and Use Them Every Day!

Have a great day!

Lisa Jimenez M.Ed.

Biz Tip of the Day
You get prospects to sell themselves by asking questions that cause them to think and talk. The result of great questions is that prospects end up making up their own minds without you having to sell them.
Think about it.

Hilton Johnson
MLMCoach

YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION:

HAPPINESS IS A BY PRODUCT OF ACTIVITY

Happiness lies in the joy of achievement,
in the thrill of creative effort.
The human spirit needs to accomplish,
to achieve, to triumph to be happy.

Happiness does not come from doing easy work,
but from the afterglow of satisfaction
that comes after the achievement
of a difficult task that demands your best.

Your personal growth itself contains the seed of happiness.
You cannot pursue happiness by itself.
There is no happiness except in the realization
that you have accomplished something.

Happiness thrives in activity.
It's a running river, not a stagnant pond.